pray is not all.

praying only cannot solve your problems. trust me, i know. its kinda annoy me seeing people pray non stop and just pray all the time. giving some effort won't hurt you, okay? after all, its for you. the effort is for you. praying without effort like buying without money. its not buying, its stealing. and praying won't be as successful as stealing. i'm not bullshitting.

okay. here is the story. a friend, whining about her problems. sure she got lots of problems (like many do). sure she is upset (like others are). but she does nothing to solve the problem (other than praying and crying and whining). i'm sooooo annoyed by this type of person, i swear to God!

she keeps repeating the same sentence to me 'why all this happen to me?what will happen to me?'. she subtly asked me to solve the problem for her, i think. and thats obvious cause the other friends said so too.

i practically told her, praying won't help anything. i told her that she must give some effort like try to chase the 'thing' or plan a strategy to defeat the enemy. not crying and whining all the time like a beaten 3-years old. and that was what trigger the conflict between us. she said that i'm selfish and stone-hearted. (she's the thousands-th to say that) she said that i do not care for my friends, and i have no love and sympathy towards others, and that is why i still single. full of annoyance seeing her acting so childish, i left her alone. do not even bother to listen anymore. i've been listening to her for about 7 hours since yesterday and now i do not care for her? i really should laugh hysterically but unfortunately i did not. (tell you what, this is exactly what i hate about girls!!!)